The True Beauty In You

    Here, in this article you will get to understand what your true beauty is and where it lies. There are so many misconceptions about who is beautiful and who is not, after reading through this post, am sure you will understand that your true Beauty lies in your inner self- Your Heart.

The main discussion will be on 'BEAUTY' and ' HEART'.

Beauty is said to be a characteristics of a person's appearance. Some are of the opinion that if you are not beautiful, then you are ugly. They might be have their reasons for saying that, since there is a saying that' beauty is in the eye of the beholder'. I am of a contrary opinion.

Where Does True Beauty Comes From?

     True Beauty comes from within, which means you having a good heart. No one can fully understand the heart of another person, except you and God that created you. This is so because the heart of a man is so important in the body. You know yourself very well, what can you say about yourself? Do you really have a good heart? Or do you seek after the beauty on the outer part which is very good but that shouldn't be your priority. This is not to be misinterpreted that you shouldn't look good and smart since the way you dress is the way you will be addressed. Beyond the looks, the real beauty is from the heart which can never fade off.

Your beauty lies in having a good heart, because a good heart makes you beautiful forever.

Can You Have a Bad Heart?

    This is a sincere question and the answer is 'yes'. The heart is a delicate part of the body, having said this, it's not gain saying that your heart might be filled with many things that won't make the body grow. What are the things that go on in your heart? Is your heart full of pride, envy, lies, anger, bitterness, negative thoughts and you feel you are beautiful with that heart. A bad heart will reflect a bad character, behavior on the outside, likewise a good heart having all the good qualities like positive thoughts, words of encouragement and all the good things of life will also reflect on the physical areas whether in her beauty or the way she responds to situations.
There is a portion in the favourite book I love reading which states 'the heart of a man is deceitful and desperately wicked: who can know it? this is telling you to free your mind from every pains, bitterness and evils so  you can live a peaceful life.


IS THERE ANY UGLY BEING ON EARTH?
      There is a myth that if you are not beautiful, then you are ugly. That is so wrong, there is no one on the surface of the earth that is ugly. God didn't create any ugly person, no wonder from my favourite book, there is a page that states 'he  saw all that he had made and it was very good'.

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 Everything else depend on you, you learn to be who you really wants to be, develop your self, have a good self esteem. Be rest assured, everyone is unique in their own way.

If you can do something better than others, then you are beautiful in that aspect.

No one can make you feel bad without your permission.

Is It Possible To Have A Good Heart And Not Beautiful?

      Your beauty depends on those qualites you have on your inside and does not depend on your looks. As long as you have a good heart, one that sees the best in the people  and  want to be the best at what you do, then you are the most beautiful  person on earth.

    You can't have a good heart and you won't be beautiful, this is because your beauty from within will definitely radiate to your looks outside, and even if you are not as beautiful as majority would define, you are always better than someone whose beauty only depend on their looks. When you are beautiful, you become an icon to your generation, the words that proceed from your mouth are words of life, words of encouragement, comfort and all you do is proffering solutions to the problem in your family, your environment, the community, and the society at large.

   However, you are to be aware that accepting yourself is even another way to tell people you are beautiful. You shouldn't be moved by what people say because people will always talk but having a good self esteem is very important in all you do. Why am I saying this? This is because the heart is the  most important organ in your body, if you are not careful with your thoughts, sooner or later it will cause an havoc to your life. No wonder, my favourite book states ' guard your heart diligently because everything you do flows from it'. Whatever you think in your heart has higher percentage of coming to reality, that's why you should not underestimate the power of your thought.

Now this goes specifically to the ladies, your beauty should be an additional asset to you, your husband, your children, your environment and the society you find yourself in, you should have other things to offer than just beauty, because those things are what will make you to have an indelible mark on the surface of the earth. The clothes you put on, the latest bags, accessories and shoes you wear are very good and they don't make you look beautiful they way you thought rather you bring out the beauty of anything you use because from the beginning you have been created beautifully and wonderfully made.

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Don't just stop there, invest into your life. Be Beautiful Inside and Outside. That's the true Beauty.

HOW TO HAVE A GOOD HEART

Here  are some tips on how to develop a good heart.

1. Feed your Heart with Positive Thoughts Constantly: This is done by listening to people that you have gone ahead of you, going for seminars, listening to inspirational messages and songs that will lift up your spirit.

2. Learn Everyday: Read books, there are so many lessons from books that will be of great benefit to you.

The day a man  stops learning, is the day he starts dying.

3. Learn To See the Best In people: We are in a world with different set of people  (the good, the bad and the ugly) where people will offend you and step on your toes, what makes the difference is when you see the good part of them knowing fully well that we all have our weaknesses. Show a little bit of care and be happy with their success.

Nobody care how much you know, until they know how much you care.

4. Have a Good Attitude To Life: Always see things from the good side of it, don't be  negative in your thinking. Attitude will determine if your success will really go far or short- termed. 

You can get to any height in life, but  your attitude will determine if you will stay far or not.

Your attitude determines your altitude in life.

5. Free Your Mind: Let's your heart be filled with all the good things of life, forgive immediately, let go of the past, do not hold grudges against anyone. Let no evil thoughts flow from your mind.

Life is too short to get angry with people and refusing to settle your differences.

Finally, the key points that have been outlined here are to your advantage. Put it to practice, work it out. Until you put it to work,  it won't work.